Discover The Brand
Welcome, celibate Sluts
Oh hey, babes. Welcome to Celibate Slut, the brand you didn't know you needed but definitely do. Let's get one thing straight-whether you're in your "ignoring their red flags because the sex is good" era or your "blocking numbers is my love language" era, this space is for you.
This brand? It was born out of chaos and clarity-both, really. After spending too much time in a toxic situationship that derailed my life (and let's be honest, probably aged me five years), I finally said, "Enough." If you've ever dealt with the NYC dating scene, you know the vibes: tragic, full of ghosters, and people whose personalities start and end with "finance." The bar isn't low, it's in hell.
But here's the tea: I stepped back into my power. Whether I decide to keep it celibate for a bit or let my inner slut roam free-it's my choice. And babe, it's yours too.
How it all Started:
A very NYC story
I'M A LIBRA. I LOVE LOVE. LIKE, IF HE'S NOT KNOCKING ON MY DOOR IN THE RAIN, TEARS STREAMING DOWN HIS FACE, SAYING, "I MESSED UP, YOU'RE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE," I DON'T WANT IT. WHAT CAN I SAY? I WANT GRAND GESTURES AND MOVIE-WORTHY DRAMA-ANYTHING LESS IS JUST ANOTHER 'WYD' TEXT I'M IGNORING.
BUT IN THIS CITY, WHERE LOVE OFTEN FEELS AS RARE AS A TRAIN ARRIVING ON TIME, EVEN I GOT HOPELESS.
THAT ALL CHANGED AT MY CAPRICORN BESTIE'S BIRTHDAY PARTY. SHE'S GOT THIS MAGICAL THING CALLED BOUNDARIES (WHO KNEW?) AND INSPIRED ME TO FINALLY DROP THAT SITUATIONSHIP THAT WAS WASTING MY TIME. AND WHILE I WAS SITTING THERE AT HER PARTY, MAKING CHARM BRACELETS, IT HIT ME: LIKING SEX SHOULDN'T BE THIS COMPLICATED OR CONTROVERSIAL. NO MATTER YOUR GENDER, SEXUALITY, OR IDENTITY, EVERYONE DESERVES TO OWN THEIR PLEASURE AND CHOICES WITHOUT JUDGMENT.
TRADITIONALLY, THE WORD SLUT HAS BEEN WEAPONIZED AGAINST FEMALE-IDENTIFYING INDIVIDUALS—A LABEL THROWN AROUND LOOSELY, OFTEN BY MEN, TO SHAME WOMEN FOR THE SAME BEHAVIORS SOCIETY CELEBRATES IN THEM. AND IT'S NOT JUST MEN-OTHER WOMEN USE IT TOO, REINFORCING THE VERY STEREOTYPES THAT HOLD US BACK. WHY IS IT THAT SOME PEOPLE GET CELEBRATED FOR THEIR CHOICES WHILE THE REST OF US GET SHAMED? NAH. THAT’S NOT IT. WE’RE FLIPPING THE SCRIPT.
